damn, that's no good.
I have never been in the marriage situation, but yeah -> people either move too damned fast, or slow --> probably them not liking me :-P .. lol
I just realized what you said about being boyfriendless. I can't believe that he wanted marriage so fast! It was smart of you to want to take things slow. It's uncharactaristic of him. I'm sorry things didn't work out but you're so damn hot that you'll find a man who's willing to take things just as slow as you want him to.
That's seriously too bad. I think that maybe once he's had time to hang out with his old friends and get back to the life he had before, his mindset might just change.