::hopes and wishes::

Antipathy 2005-03-30 12:06:23 ET so, my mom called me today to say that my grandmother (her mom) is having open heart surgery tomorrow morning. she was so close to a heart attack.. she only went in for one clogged artery and when they examined her they found that all her arteries were 90% clogged... now.. my grama raised me till i was 8... and she drives me crazy.. always telling me what to do, what to wear, who to be with.... but i love her. i was told that open heart surgery involves breaking some of her ribs. i called her.. knowing that she would love to hear from me, and she was crying on the phone telling me how much she loves me.. all i could do was reassure her that the doctors know what they are doing and everything will be fine.. she did say one thing tho that... i will always remember.. she always seemed to hate the fact that im with james... for years now she has been trying to talk me out of marrying him. but today while i was talking to her she said this sentence: "when you and james get married, i hope you buy a big house so i can visit" she is acknowleding that i will be with him.. that he will forever be in my life. she has never done that. i think shes really freaked out.. i promised her i would go to florida for 2 weeks this summer.

delete yourself 2005-03-30 12:23:15 ET sounds like the fear of god/death is making her come to her sences. sad to hear that, all of this could have been avoided if she ate better and excercised.

crystaltears 2005-03-30 13:09:54 ET reading what she said made a tear come to my eye. im happy for you faithy/james, more faye-faye though cause i dont know you james. sorry. i hope she'll be ok and if at random you think of me when your talking to her, send my hopes and a little love. :) oh and i agree with james

crystaltears 2005-03-30 13:11:55 ET hey faye have you given him the thing yet?.. ::anxious to see if he eats it::

Antipathy 2005-03-30 14:33:56 ET he read your reply before i showed him it and was like "show me what? eat what!? i dont eat random drugs anymore!" ya its amazing that she said that about me and james.. it makes me feel all warm inside.. stuff like this reminds me that she wont live forever.

klemmy 2005-03-30 15:07:30 ET is this the same granny the folded ur panties?

turbo 2005-03-30 21:08:43 ET thats sweet... ill be wishing her a fast recovery from the surgery

Antipathy 2005-03-31 08:15:35 ET no, the one that folded my panties was my dads mom, this is my mom's mom... i hope she recovers quickly too.. she always complained of her chest hurting.. i didnt know it was serious.

crystaltears 2005-04-06 11:27:07 ET fast recovery, fast recovery, fast recovery, fast recovery come one everybody chant with me now... its for a good cause..

Antipathy 2005-04-06 13:21:10 ET no one has called me to let me know how everyhting went, im guessing everything is fine, coz theyd call me if she died, but i hear the its not the surgery thats dangerous its the recovery time that could turn into infections.

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